Even if someone doesn't say "thank you" or do the same thing would you still give unconditional love?
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?
47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?
48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
We should care and look out to our brother and sisters love covers multitude of sins. If you see someone made mistakes don't gossip them instead pray for them and restore them to God.
It is a struggle to love who are against you, God is our help in time of our need. If we call to take away the bitterness in our heart; forgiveness, we can't hold
Depend on the Lord and pray.
It's not easy to love because we get hurt. There will always be people that God will bring to our life to try us to give unconditional love. There are people in our life to teach us about learning love if we don't deal with it and again there will be another people whom God will bring to teach us same situation until we learn how to deal with it.
Live at peace with all men. Don't take revenge as our place is to Love.
Remember Jesus gave us unconditional love. If we don't give it we may not receive it either.