Before I can remember... I always complain before I obey, but as the word of God above and from the concept of 1 Peter we must obey before we complain.
For wife -must be submissive to the husband.
Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Being submissive = cooperate entirely and volountarily
A change life speaks loudly and clearly. Be a good sample of Christian.
The pattern of God is to change inside - out.
Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Genesis 2:22-23 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
23 The man said,
"This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called 'woman'
for she was taken out of man."
And now for the husband:
Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Ephesians 5:22-28 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
And now for all and everybody:
Matthew 5:44 But I tell you: Love your enemies[a] and pray for those who persecute you,
a. Matthew 5:44 Some late manuscripts enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you
Romans 12:20-21 On the contrary:
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Galatians 6:10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.
oh! all of these words are so hard to do, specially when we are moved by emotional hurt.
Ephesians 6:10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.
Galatians 6:3 If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
As Believers of Christ were not to compare ourselves to other believers thinking that we are Super Christians and they are not, because in reality we are not. May you continue to depend in His Power and strength to live a victorious life day after day.